The miracle of hugging.

Hugging other people is when our hearts are at their closest. It gives a great feeling of acceptance, of affection, of love and of appreciation. It is an act of compassion where we magnify our feelings in the presence of others just so we know that we are not alone. It is one of the best things that can happen in human relationships. It is a booster of trust and security. It is passion I would like to develop since it has many health benefits. It is an act that is never regrettable or condemnable.

Hugging promotes many things that are good. It is a sign where those whom we really care and concerned for they will not leave us. It is a 2 way act. Well, it can be more than 2 ways. This is when we have discovered their importance in our lives. There is no room for hatred here because this act justifies the intersubjectivity of human existence at its best. It makes us feel very special and precious to all. It is the jewelry of relationships in physical terms. Nothing can replace this because it is the best thing in the world to compensate for our loneliness.

This can be a wonderful hobby. It is the most extensive kind of body contact. We can totally feel others with the sense of touch. We can cry our feelings out at that particular moment. We can really cry just for being grateful for their way of concerning us. We can apologize at this very moment of forgiveness. It completely summarizes the worth of our individuality, our integrity and our dignity as fellow human beings. It is a simple gesture of existential gratification with total authentic intentions to connect. It is the fuel of positive energy where we can really be encouraged expressing our feelings, our emotions to its fullest since we can really feel safe.

There are times when we don't want to let go and there are times when hugging is one of the best moments of our lives. We can really feel supported if hugging happens in a social support group. It is the moment when all arguments are silenced as they don't want to fight anymore.

Hugging softens our hearts and if this happens frequently, we not only become humble, but we learn to really connect with others and we can really learn to appreciate life very well, because these people are valuable, important and special.

If you want to hug others, you will be hugged by others. If you don't want to hug others, you wont get a hug. Apply Newton's 3rd law of motion to this principle. This is when we can become fully ourselves in the presence of other people. It is the most used act for people who haven't seen each other and who really do miss each other. It is an act of gratitude and of return to a greater sate.

Touching is the most widely used of senses. The skin is the largest organ in the human body. No matter what happens, no matter what we do, now matter what our attitude is, we should hug other people, because we will definitely see their true importance to us when they will be gone. That's a true fact and we should not take advantage of this fact.

Yes, I would like to hug other people. Maybe I can be one of those people who can make a "Free Hug Sign". That would be wonderful. It is truly authentic and natural. It is even better than hugging a tree. I would be very proud to be a hugger for all. :) So, feel other people.

(This came from my diary entry of November 7, 2010. I wrote this when I was in my dad's house then. )

So, to end this post, I will give you a hug. >:)< (I think this is the emoticon. LOL!!!)

Have a good day!