Controlling Other People (Control Freaks)

What is Control?

Control - to limit or restrict the occurrence or expression of somebody or something, especially to keep it from appearing, increasing, or spreading.

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In this case, Interpersonal control. Not the Interpersonal military or managerial control.

In my own ways, I would never attempt to control someone or to forcely change someone without a certain, valid reason.

Controling someone is quite inhumane because the control freaks are too hypochondriac of the dangers around the controlees or some other reason but it is an innate need of something.

I would only control others when necessary. An example would be "Stop doing this!". I will not force is this control, I will just let it seep in to me. Control they say, is a basic need, without it we will feel insecure. Actually, as one US First Lady said "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." That's Eleanor Roosevelt the Wife of the US President Franklin Delano Roosevelt.

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For me, I didn't think about that. So, you see, you cannot control or change other people without allowing those people to let you do so. It is a complete assertion that individuality is a state of independence and self-control.

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The Control and The Game

Now, Let's think a bit deeper, if you have played any online games like Gaia, Fresbo world, Dota, Ragnarok, Counterstrike or almost all kinds of games, you will understand. Have you ever wondered putting yourself in the same position of that character in the games? Don't you think there is a controller out there? This is a different sense of control. I would call this "Pre-conscious Control". "Unconscious Control is Sleepwalking." "Conscious Control is Self-Conscious awareness".

In this vision, we see now that we ourselves are in a game as characters of the game. The name of this game is called "LIFE". But this game is different, we live life only once in this game. Therefore, we should live with it to our very best like coffee in the cup of coffee.

Good DAY!