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Sunday, June 28, 2009

Relationship observations

My YM status said:

"After chatting with people who are in a relationship, I want to immerse myself
into a romantic experimentation very soon."


All these Boyfriend and Girlfriend stuff are just experiments we are not very aware of. Adolescents are too young to go into this. Look at the cases of teenage pregnancy out there. That's a major disadvantage and can lead to a serious consequence of accepting another burden in one's life. A bigger responsibility in which we are not prepared of. OR it can also lead to the ethical dilemma of abortion.

Those people who are EMO or suffering depression and won't accept that depression as a fact of life SHOULD BE considered as cowards and weaklings, because they are too weak to combat that depression by suicide. Come on, That is not Altruistic Eros anymore, that is Suicidal Eros.

A Filipina who lives in New Zealand told me she had 11 relationships.

Now, I wrote this status in my YM. I actually had changed my mind.

"Alright! Romantic experimentation shouldn't be forced. Make it natural as a
tree growing to the sun, not the sun crashing to the trees. I will just let the
time come to me even though I see alot of people in such experiences."

I wouldn't go for the unnatural. Life is not eros alone. Life is more than that. Life is the miracle of universal harmony within the interconnections of all things.

We forgetting to live without the appreciation of oneself is more than an unexamined life. It is a loss of self-dignity and value. Suicide is UNETHICAL!

A pre-mature romantic relationship was absurd in the early 20th century and before. This absurdity gradually reversed itself to moral acceptability.

I am a product of teenage pregnancy myself. The common sense is no longer common. Without agape, this romantic experimentation can go forever. You see those actors with the cases of annullment and divorce. There is no happiness in there.

Let's face the fact that change is constant and it is indeed the universal derivative of life. A friend of mine said this:


"I guess, that's how life goes... as we grow up, we change.. the way we talk,
the way we dress, our perceptions in life, maturity, our values, and a lot
more... even your BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND.. they're changing in so many ways..
sometimes, it's hard to accept the fact the he/she really changed. sometimes,
you're happy because he/she changed."

We cannot change others unless they allow that change to happen. We can only change ourselves for the better and accept whatever comes to our possession.

So, I shall wait for it to come to me even though jealousy takes the best of me. My last note is from a Yahoogroup I joined with. They will take credit for this:


"If you love someone because you think that he or she is really gorgeous...
Then it's not love..
it's - Infatuation. ..

If you love someone
because you think that you shouldn't leave him because others think that you
shouldn't...
Then it's not love..
it's - Compromise.. .

If you
love someone because you think that you cannot live with out his touch....
Then it's not love..
it's - Lust...

If you love someone because
you have been kissed by him...
Then it's not love..
it's - Inferiority
Complex...

If you love someone because you cannot leave him thinking
that it would hurt his feelings..
Then it's not love..
it's - Charity...

If you love someone because you share every thing with him...
Then
it's not love..
it's - Friendship.. .

But if you feel the pain of
the other person more than him even when he is stable
And you cry for him..
that's - LOVE... "

Reflect, Self-enlighten and Refresh. :)

1 comment:

†cheska† said...

really!! it's right..sometimes..me,myself too..i feel jealous about my friends who have suitors and love stuff =( i want someone who will bring my bag..carry my things and someone who will txt me in the morning saying gud morning and stuff..but i guess..it's immature love..i read this quote and i guess it's really true... "IMMATURE LOVE SAYS..I LOVE YOU BCOZ I NEED YOU WHILE THE MATURE LOVE SAYS I NEED YOU BCOZ I LOVE YOU" i hope i make sense.LOL

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